Don't you just hate it when...

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... you have all the talents, but others just treat you like trash?

This is me in my mind:
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and this is how my family looks at me:
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I don't know, maybe I sit in front of the computer most of the time and that leads them to think this way? Or, maybe I'm in a Chinese family and stereotypically, they expect a lot more? They just... don't seem to want to dig deeper into a person, and see what is so beautiful in them.

I feel really isolated. I did all this work and it never gets appreciated, but when someone else did the same thing with a lackluster quality, he/she gets the praise? And, when they get into trouble, I take all the blames? How unfair is that?

I hated them before. Yes, I did. However, I find this only upsets myself and they won't change for you in any bit. Hence, nowadays, I will only ignore them and pity how much awesome stuff they have missed from me.

Let's take an example, even if you were a very skillful singer, without a proper audience that KNOWS how to appreciate you, your performance will never be a successful one. With this mindset, I could get around it and show my talents to more people who ACTUALLY appreciate me as a person. My bf :iconslydragoon16: being one, and I'm super thankful to have met him~

Have you ever have this kind of experiences before? If so, how do you deal with them?

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BTW, I'm running out of deivants to feature, so I will not be doing art features so frequently until I collect enough artists~

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I know exactly how you fell... Look' like your best is nothing for others.... Like even you beeing in a room with 1.000 people, you're always... alone.... I REALLY know how is be... How not to count on most of my family. I have a huge family, but lives alone with my father, and even he is skeptical with my ideas and plans ... sometimes it seems like I'm treated like a child ... That hurts real. So.. what I do? nothing... just wait untill FINALLY have achieved what I want and be able to stand on your own, and hope to find someone who likes me for who I am and what I like ( sorry for the bad english XS )