It's possible to work hard and still have fun while doing so! It's all about the attitude! School and student loans feel a bit daunting at times but if you work hard and smile through it, it's a great feeling when you finally finish!
I just live day by day. If you think that the world cares if it follows your plain, you are just setting your self up. I not know if I am going to be around in 50 years, 30, 10, 5 or the next day. We have one life. So not try to control it because the world is like a 1000 pound loin. It don't give a shit if you had plains for the week, he would just eat you up.